becoming infinite

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disoriented.

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i woke up this morning having no clue about…anything. really. i didn’t know what day it was (not terribly atypical), what month or year it was, where i was (i have been living in this house since july…get it together, jenn), or even what in the hell i was doing/what i was waking up for. i looked around for a good thirty seconds to find the door and shuffled my way there, hoping i would know which way to turn when i got outside of it.

the only thing i kept muttering to myself was “my name is jenn. my mom’s dead.”

flashback twelve years: i started having “gap” seizures my junior year of high school. i would phase out, be completely disoriented while i was seizing (i use that term lightly – there were never any tremors involved, just cognitive blackout), and then when it was over and i phased back in, i would have to re-figure where i was, what had happened, who i was with, etc.

my friends and family learned that, since i was still physically completely functional and “normal”-looking when i seized, a big warning sign that i was under was me turning to them, sometimes in the middle of a sentence, and saying, ‘what day is it?’

as i phased back in, to ground myself i would always work from the background forward. i would start with the year: ‘it’s 2001..’ then the month, the day, where i was…eventually my fog would clear and i would be just as i had been before the seizure, only just having lost a few minutes of my day.

that was exactly how i felt this morning. only as i tried to ground myself, figure out where i was and how i got there, i grabbed on to the two things most salient in my life: my name, and the fact that my mom is gone. it took an unusually long time to fully understand where i was, what day it was, what i had planned to do this morning, etc…i think it’s just the stress of the semester causing brain fritzs. but it’s interesting – when in a pinch, the things we grab on to to “define” ourselves.

“my name is jenn. my mom’s dead.” where do i go from there?

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Author: jenn

impossible to define; indefinitely impossible. maybe i'll add more here later.

2 thoughts on “disoriented.

  1. I was hesitant to like this post, but it’s really powerfully written.

    Wow.

    I can’t imagine how difficult it is, and has been for you to deal with the coming back to reality thing.
    You made me think though, a lot, how does anyone define themselves? I’ve had meds that do that to me, momentarily, I don’t know what’s going on or where I am and get confused as to how I got here, and have no recollection of getting here. I use grounding techniques also, and during that time, I’d carry a journal with me everywhere… It did help somewhat, Id read that to figure out me, and it was calming reading my own writing.

    I know that what I went through is no where near as tough as actual seizures, but I guess I figure it might help, hence mentioning it.

    Hugs lovely xx

    • thank you! i used to always have my journal with me, really up until the last couple of years. it was always comforting to see my handwriting and read things that i had written when i was feeling really optimistic or lucid – kind of a little reminder that it happened once, so it can happen again, ya know?

      thanks for your lovely words. ❤

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